FUN FORMAL & CHIC plus Weekend Love and Ice cream

So weekends are those fantabulously crazy work driven yet so exciting few days that i always look forward to , after all thats one day that i finally get to play the TANTRUM QUEEN and hog all the love & attention from my guy.

This weekend we decided to just meet impromptu , we met at Infinity mall Andheri (w) and were wondering where to go for our date when THOR got jealous and poured down all his green and kept pouring and pouring , till we got over our " its so romantic to hold hands in the rain " phase and moved onto "YAWN  I am bored " phase .

So this is what I did at the mall :)

It all started with window shopping at VERO MODA , had sneak a peek at the mirror, ended up buying a block floral bangle and these adorable ballerinas :) Oh ! and the real steal was you buy 1 accessory and get 2 free :D

Perfect for transition from formal office girl to impulsive road shopper , very comfortable and CHIC !

Posed & Poised after the wallet attack

A good pose can completely transform a picture from Eh to woot , work with your body , a little forward lean & crossed hands is all I need in my case

A little high from the shopping & Love

A simple hemline dress compliments all body types , me being a strawberry body type top it up with a jacket that hugs and falls at just the right curves , this dress is from All the plus size store and i picked it up at 70% off ! , the jacket is one of my best buys from one of my street shopping spree.

If you are top heavy , choose a jacket with self patterned vertical stripes to cut down on the broadness of your shoulders notice how the broad mid-waist piece of belt draws attention  towards the waist

An empire waist that does not hang loose below the waist line and narrows at the hemline is perfect for full bodied girls like me , also notice the pose from top angles are most flattering for curvy body types

Fridays are the best days to wear your smokey eyes and nude lips , as the look is perfect for office time and party afterwards , I am wearing MAC eyeshadow in pompous blue and freshwater , and LANCOME  l'absolu nu in Beige tulle

A well deserved peck after all the patience with the poses

A perfect end to a perfect weekend Musk melon sorbetto for the man and chocolate cookie crunch for the lady 

So its often the small insignificant days that we would remember more than those big ones , so enjoy it as much as you can.

Mwah Princess Love !
Isha

CritiSIZE Accept and LOVE

I am putting out my thoughts with great courage , i still feel the fear of being judged and finally preached : How bad it is to be FAT and how i should have been careful and not done what i did to be what I am today.

But I am going to write this blog anyways , because its not about the outside noise anymore but about what truly matters to me.

"I think I am a pretty chubby wubby girl , who loves Food and Fashion".

For a break I just want to be who I am now , yes I am overweight and i am trying to train myself into a healthier lifestyle , but i am not going to bog myself down anymore with what family , friends or people want me to be. Yes no doubt they all mean well and i truly appreciate it ,and by no means do i support or profess an unhealthy lifestyle but this constant preaching of how FAT is bad for me and how much better i can be once i loose weight is not letting me enjoy my present moment the way it was meant to be.
So today after another long phone call full of
you need to loose weight
join a gymn
don't eat out
just 3 months to your wedding

 I felt drained , bitter and angry and like most of the chub-kins sailing in my boat i thought that my life is the most miserable in the world ( I know that's not true) but that's what i thought.So i again opened a bag of my trusty friend Lay's masala and popped a big one in my mouth , Ah the dance the spices did on my tongue instantly made me feel better and with that crunchy munch i almost forgot the conversation , halfway down the bag of chips and already reaching out for my TV  remote now ,I asked myself a rhetorical question " Why are you doing this to yourself ?"

Well like always I din't have an answer , only a silent discomfort within,  that needed acceptance and Love .
So i dumped Mr. Lay's and headed out for a walk , trying to understand what is it that's holding me from adopting a healthy lifestyle and finally making the big dreams come true.

Well for sure the answer is simpler than i wanted to hear , its lack of self love , yes i know its written on almost every fat girl's blog who has ever overcome the pounds so in that way I don't really have anything new to say.
But i know that Acceptance is the first step towards change and i have made peace with my weight and my curves. Now before i decide to hit a gymn , i am going to show some love and acceptance to the inner me that has been tormented all these years not by the criticism it got from others but the constant criticism and comparison inside. I have realized that its truly not the judgement of others that hurt me but my ignorance to my own self that caused me all this pain.
So step 1 to feeling better
Buying some awesome clothes that are fashionable and look good on me , no more baggy Tshirts and kurtas.
After all every girl is a princess and she deserves to be treated well.

Mwah Princess !
Isha :)